Suzy X. isn't real

May 26

I really DID spend 75% of that party last night, ruminating about astrology with a bunch of queers

May 25

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I think I started a trend of people yelling at cheapskates trying to hire domestic help for free on Craigslist -

We should fuck with people on Craigslist more often. They flagged my angry rant about exploitation within 12 hours. But I like that I’m seeing more of these posts from other people.

May 24

princepsfemina:

Tonight, thanks to the Reproductive Health Access Project and papayas, I learned all about the options for first trimester abortions and even performed an aspiration abortion on a papaya! My motivation for going to the seminar was 1.) I staunchly fight for reproductive justice and access in my activist work and yet I was a little shaky about the medicine behind it and 2.) I am really scared about reproductive health access and how every day, anti-reproductive-health assholes chip away at the constitutional right for me and all those with uteri to control our bodily autonomy and heath. I wanted to at least be theoretically familiar with how a first trimester abortion works. I think I am going to go to more seminars in the future just to be safe. I have read the Handmaid’s Tale too many times and to be honest, I’m terrified. 

Yes! I went to this event with some other rad folks, and we were all just amazed at how simple the process is. Granted, I’d be way more anxious about doing this on a human being, but practicing on papayas doesn’t hurt. Also, just putting it out there that the Reproductive Health Access Project also has a program that offers free IUDs to folks in NYC!

princepsfemina:

Tonight, thanks to the Reproductive Health Access Project and papayas, I learned all about the options for first trimester abortions and even performed an aspiration abortion on a papaya! My motivation for going to the seminar was 1.) I staunchly fight for reproductive justice and access in my activist work and yet I was a little shaky about the medicine behind it and 2.) I am really scared about reproductive health access and how every day, anti-reproductive-health assholes chip away at the constitutional right for me and all those with uteri to control our bodily autonomy and heath. I wanted to at least be theoretically familiar with how a first trimester abortion works. I think I am going to go to more seminars in the future just to be safe. I have read the Handmaid’s Tale too many times and to be honest, I’m terrified. 

Yes! I went to this event with some other rad folks, and we were all just amazed at how simple the process is. Granted, I’d be way more anxious about doing this on a human being, but practicing on papayas doesn’t hurt. Also, just putting it out there that the Reproductive Health Access Project also has a program that offers free IUDs to folks in NYC!

Some children like their nannies to tell them fairy tales.

Mine asks me to explain the desert of the real.

oceanroses:

Hope Sandoval from Mazzy Star

oceanroses:

Hope Sandoval from Mazzy Star

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fuckyeahmarxismleninism:

Justice for Marissa March & Rally
Ms. Alexander, a mother of 3, who currently holds a Master’s Degree and had no prior criminal record; was attacked by her husband who has a known and documented history of domestic abuse on August 1, 2010. Alexander was arrested after she fired a warning shot into the wall after her husband threatened to kill her.Join us on May 29th, 2012 at Hemming Plaza in Jacksonville, FL. Starting at 8am as we march toward the new courthouse. Speakers, Musical tributes & much more.

fuckyeahmarxismleninism:

Justice for Marissa March & Rally

Ms. Alexander, a mother of 3, who currently holds a Master’s Degree and had no prior criminal record; was attacked by her husband who has a known and documented history of domestic abuse on August 1, 2010. Alexander was arrested after she fired a warning shot into the wall after her husband threatened to kill her.

Join us on May 29th, 2012 at Hemming Plaza in Jacksonville, FL. Starting at 8am as we march toward the new courthouse. Speakers, Musical tributes & much more.

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JUST REBLOGGING RGR FOR PURE GENIUS: ON PRISONS AND RAPE CULTURE

rgr-pop:

Yeah Suzy!

I should also add, too, that this kind of argument completely erases the fact that prison subjects bodies to rape in hugely escalated ways. IE, people go to jail for, say, drug possession and then are raped or (less rampantly) become rapists. There aren’t really stats on this, but the idea that most prison rape is committed by other prisoners bothers me and is probably not true at all. Prison makes bodies particularly vulnerable to rape by cops, guards, doctors, janitors, fucking everyone. A prison industrial complex, a prison system at all, is always going to be what we call a “rape culture” because it is a culture which removes economic and legal value from bodies, which completely separates bodies from their autonomy, which by definition erases the right/power/capability that any body has to exercise anything that looks like “consent,” and which makes a rape of these bodies unpunishable by any means.

And (if you watch SVU you know this all too well) a support of prisons is a complicity in using rape as punishment for (almost always) lesser wrongs, most of which are not actually bodily infractions but are capitalist ones—drugs, property theft. Rape becomes something that it is okay to do to certain bodies, and rape becomes something it is especially okay to do to bodies that fuck with capitalism. In prisons, rape props up capitalism. (And let’s not forget that this is literal: guess how many things in your home and neighborhood were made by prison labor? Guess how many things on your boobs were made using prison labor?)

If you fuck with capitalism you go to jail. If you go to jail you get raped. If you get raped you don’t go to jail. If you rape a prisoner you get a high five from Eliott Stabler.

I don’t want to overlook the important fact, though: dude socialists will always always use the PIC as a way to derail and redirect any conversation about accountability for rapists. Even though, as you said, most rapists are not in prison, nor will they ever be in prison.

a: I want my rapist to go to jail
dude socialist: you are propping up capitalism, and also I am probably going to rape you because that’s what dudes like me do

*anarchists too, and really any dude, or maybe anybody, but I’ve met mostly the socialist ones

Smashing The Prison Industrial Complex In Three Easy Steps, According To White Dudes In Their Twenties:

  1. FREE ALL RAPISTS! ANY WOMAN OR QUEER PERSON WHO WANTS TO INVOLVE THE STATE IN THEIR TRAUMA IS AN ENEMY OF THE CAUSE AND SHOULD BE REMOVED FROM ALL ORGANIZING SPACES. ALSO PROBABLY RAPED.
  2. ANY PERSON WHO DOES NOT PROTEST MY WEED POSSESSION CHARGES* IS AN ENEMY OF LIBERATION
  3. IF WE SOLVE THESE PROBLEMS, ALL THE POOR BLACK PEOPLE WILL BE SAVED

*wherein I will never face jail time if I am white but am really mad about having to do community service

This is like my favorite example of a tag team in the history of feminist tumblr. I love this response and I love how smart you are.

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May 23

HAPPY HUMP DAY, ASSHOLES

HAPPY HUMP DAY, ASSHOLES

mr-owls asked: Uhh just reading yr entire blog like a creeper because it's awesome, and i just wanted to point out... "demisexual" does not necessarily mean "straight and monogamous", my platonic lifemate is a pansexual, polyamorous demisexual for instance. But yeah, being oppressed just for being demisexual is not a thing.

Thanks! I actually understand that demisexuality on its own is a matter of sexual desire, not sexual orientation. It’s why I said “straight demisexuals” do not fall under “queer” because duh, they’re straight. However monogamy is only a practice in which sexual desire is contained, not necessarily the desire itself. Perhaps monogamy (regulation of desire through an exclusive relationship) wasn’t the best comparison for demisexuality (a form of desire itself, at least according to tumblr). It was a comparison, not an assertion. I’m just trying to assert that 1) demisexuality itself is not queer and 2) demisexuality is not an identity by which someone is oppressed.

Committing a crime does not remove... -

mcgoats:

lavender-labia:

thegreenwolf:

Committing a crime does not remove someone’s humanity. I would rather live in a society where rapists and murderers are still treated as human beings, even in a prison, because preserving their right to be human is as important as protecting my right to be…

Wow ok I’m not gonna treat or think of rapists with compassion literally ever thx xoxo

sorry not sorry

Okay so this thread has really started to irk me.

Everyone crying “BUT WHERE WILL ALL THE RAPISTS GO?!?!?!” at those for prison abolition really miss several points here. And one of them is that actually, the vast majority of rapists actually DO NOT end up in prison.

If only 56% or estimated rapes are reported and only 3% of those charged with rape ever see a jail cell, who’s to say that most prisoners are rapists? In fact it seems a minority of prisoners actually are violent offenders. Meanwhile, a rising number of people in prison are actually “drug offenders” (AKA young people of color who sell or use drugs) who’ve been racially profiled. According to wikipedia:

As of 2006, 49.3% of state prisoners, or 656,000 individuals, were incarcerated for non-violent crimes. As of 2008, 90.7% of federal prisoners, or 165,457 individuals, were incarcerated for non-violent offenses.[22] Drug offenses account for two-thirds of the rise in the federal inmate population since 1985; approximately half a million people are in prison for a drug offense today compared to 40,000 in 1981—an increase of 1,100 percent.[23]

The reason we demonstrated in front of a women’s prison on Mother’s Day is because incarcerated women, especially women of color, are disproportionately survivors of violence and trauma. Many of them are incarcerated as a result of their abuse; many fight back, many get duped by their abusers, and many consequently have to leave their families behind. Also, with regards to transwomen, many are profiled by police under the suspicion of being sex workers, and have had to fight off hate crimes.  Eve Ensler, who I usually feel iffy about, has made an excellent documentary and play called Any One of Us, and Victoria Law has written a book called Resistance Behind Bars, which articulates women’s struggles in prisons and outside of them. Angela Davis has also written extensively on the subject as a black feminist and former political prisoner. These works show that these prisoners don’t need to be confined; they need serious help.

If the current criminal justice system was any good, the assholes on Wall Street would be done for, and so would roughly 94% of rapists. If it was any good, my own father wouldn’t have been thrown in prison under the racist pretense that he was undocumented, when he actually showed up to court to pay a debt. But instead, prisons uphold white supremacy and slavery, and continue cycles of abuse for marginalized people. So you all need to do yourselves a favor and read up before you start attacking prison abolitionists, instead of individualizing a structural problem by saying things like “But I need prisons!” When you obviously have no idea what happens in them or how most people get there. No sympathy for rapists, but no excuses for a fucked up prison system. 

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I really hate that RadScum have ruined the term “radical feminist.”

I am a radical feminist. 

However, what I won’t be is a transphobic douchenozzle.

OH HAI RGP I’M GLAD YR BACK. I SEE GUITAR PRACTICE IS GOING WELL.

OH HAI RGP I’M GLAD YR BACK. I SEE GUITAR PRACTICE IS GOING WELL.

colony-of-slippermen asked: you and kim should totes go as Gotye and Kimbra for halloween.

Is it bad that I don’t know who they are? We’re considering going as Link and Navi from Legend of Zelda. Because Kim looks like an elf… and I’m a nagging little wretch who’d get a kick out of whacking him in the head with a little fairy wand yelling “HEY! LISTEN!”

joshishollywood:

Thanks to Mens Rights Activists we now have safe men’s spaces, a more acceptable, inoffensive and less nebulous term used to describe what was previously referred to as “public”

OH MAN THAT’S SO GOOD

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